{"id":44063,"date":"2024-09-11T01:17:54","date_gmt":"2024-09-11T01:17:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.cos.net.au\/c\/?p=44063"},"modified":"2024-09-11T01:49:18","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T01:49:18","slug":"national-ruok-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cos.net.au\/c\/cospedia\/health-wellbeing\/national-ruok-day","title":{"rendered":"RUOK? Day: Creating a Culture of Support and Connection\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"44063\" class=\"elementor elementor-44063\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-386c298 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"386c298\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d932cc5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d932cc5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Every year, on the second Thursday of September, Australians are reminded to check in on their friends, family, and colleagues, asking the simple but powerful question, &#8220;Are you OK?&#8221;<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">RUOK? Day, a national initiative in Australia, is a day dedicated to promoting mental health awareness and encouraging conversations about wellbeing. It&#8217;s a simple concept: asking someone &#8220;Are you okay?&#8221; can make a world of difference, but why is this so important, and why should we make it a daily practice?<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1390762 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1390762\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-160797b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"160797b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Importance of RUOK? Day <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c396ac8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c396ac8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b997a9d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b997a9d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">RUOK? Day highlights a critical issue in Australia: the increasing need for mental health support. Mental health conditions affect people from all walks of life, and many struggle in silence. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, around <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abs.gov.au\/statistics\/health\/mental-health\/national-study-mental-health-and-wellbeing\/latest-release\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">8.5 million Australians had experienced a mental health disorder<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> in their lifetime. Despite the high prevalence, many people hesitate to seek help due to stigma, lack of awareness, or the misconception that they need to deal with their problems on their own.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Suicide remains a major concern in Australia. In 2022, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aihw.gov.au\/suicide-self-harm-monitoring\/data\/suicide-self-harm-monitoring-data\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">3,249 Australians lost their lives to suicide<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">, and it is the leading cause of death for Australians aged 15\u201344. For every suicide, there are an estimated 30 attempts, reflecting the widespread mental health challenges facing individuals and communities. These numbers underscore the importance of initiatives like RUOK? Day, which aims to reduce the stigma surrounding mental health, encourage conversations, and connect people to the support they need.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-260bfdd e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"260bfdd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8d82afa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8d82afa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why Asking \"How Can I Help?\" Is Better <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-27e82a1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"27e82a1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0f532c1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0f532c1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">While asking &#8220;Are you OK?&#8221; is a great way to start a conversation, some experts suggest that asking &#8220;How can I help?&#8221; can be even more effective. When someone is struggling, they may find it difficult talk about their feelings. They <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cos.net.au\/c\/cospedia\/tips-for-supporting-a-colleague-on-ruokday\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">might not be &#8220;OK&#8221; in that moment<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">, but asking for emotional insight can feel overwhelming for them. Asking &#8220;How can I help?&#8221; changes the tone of the conversation, showing that you\u2019re ready to offer practical support.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Here\u2019s why this approach can be more beneficial:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><ul><li data-leveltext=\"\uf0b7\" data-font=\"Symbol\" data-listid=\"2\" data-list-defn-props=\"{&quot;335552541&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559991&quot;:360,&quot;469769226&quot;:&quot;Symbol&quot;,&quot;469769242&quot;:[8226],&quot;469777803&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;469777804&quot;:&quot;\uf0b7&quot;,&quot;469777815&quot;:&quot;multilevel&quot;}\" aria-setsize=\"-1\" data-aria-posinset=\"1\" data-aria-level=\"1\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Shifting the Focus<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: &#8220;How can I help?&#8221; focuses on action and assistance rather than just acknowledging distress. It moves the conversation away from merely identifying feelings to taking concrete steps to improve the situation.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><ul><li data-leveltext=\"\uf0b7\" data-font=\"Symbol\" data-listid=\"2\" data-list-defn-props=\"{&quot;335552541&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559991&quot;:360,&quot;469769226&quot;:&quot;Symbol&quot;,&quot;469769242&quot;:[8226],&quot;469777803&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;469777804&quot;:&quot;\uf0b7&quot;,&quot;469777815&quot;:&quot;multilevel&quot;}\" aria-setsize=\"-1\" data-aria-posinset=\"2\" data-aria-level=\"1\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Empowering the Person<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: When someone is asked, &#8220;How can I help?&#8221;, it empowers them to think about what they need. Whether it\u2019s a small favour, advice, or simply someone to listen, it gives them the space to identify how you can provide meaningful support.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><ul><li data-leveltext=\"\uf0b7\" data-font=\"Symbol\" data-listid=\"2\" data-list-defn-props=\"{&quot;335552541&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:720,&quot;335559991&quot;:360,&quot;469769226&quot;:&quot;Symbol&quot;,&quot;469769242&quot;:[8226],&quot;469777803&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;469777804&quot;:&quot;\uf0b7&quot;,&quot;469777815&quot;:&quot;multilevel&quot;}\" aria-setsize=\"-1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-aria-level=\"1\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Reducing the Pressure to Explain<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: &#8220;Are you OK?&#8221; may put someone on the spot, especially if they\u2019re not ready or able to express their emotions. &#8220;How can I help?&#8221; removes the need for an immediate emotional disclosure, easing the pressure and allowing for a more supportive conversation.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">This slight adjustment in language can significantly improve the way we communicate support. The focus becomes less about diagnosing someone\u2019s mental health and more about being a proactive and reliable source of help.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fdb562b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"fdb562b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-37fc5ac elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"37fc5ac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Making RUOK? Day Every Day <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f71599a e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"f71599a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8e6e96d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8e6e96d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">RUOK? Day is a wonderful initiative, but mental health and wellbeing are ongoing concerns that don\u2019t only exist on one day of the year. We should strive to make every day feel like RUOK? Day by fostering a culture of support, openness, and connection. Here are a few ways we can do this:<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6560a7 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c6560a7\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-02768a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"02768a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">1. Regular Check-ins<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: Instead of only asking if someone is OK on RUOK? Day, make it a habit to check in regularly with those around you. Whether it\u2019s a quick text, a phone call, or catching up for a coffee, consistent contact can help people feel more supported in their daily lives. You never know when someone might be going through a tough time, and small gestures of care can go a long way.<\/span><\/p><p><b style=\"font-size: inherit;\"><span data-contrast=\"auto\">2. Promote Mental Health Awareness<\/span><\/b><span style=\"font-size: inherit;\" data-contrast=\"auto\">: The more we talk about mental health, the less stigma there will be around seeking help. Encourage conversations about mental health in your workplace, community, and family. Share resources and information to educate others on how to spot the signs of someone struggling and how to offer support.<\/span><span style=\"font-size: inherit;\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">3. Be a Good Listener<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: Sometimes, the best thing you can do for someone is to simply listen. When someone opens up about their struggles, resist the urge to immediately offer advice or solutions. Let them talk and acknowledge their feelings. Being heard can be incredibly validating and can make a person feel less alone.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">4. Encourage Professional Help<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: While conversations with friends and family are crucial, they\u2019re not a replacement for professional mental health care. Encourage those who are struggling to seek professional support, whether it\u2019s through a GP, psychologist, or a mental health helpline. Early intervention can make a significant difference in managing mental health conditions.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">5. Look After Yourself Too<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">: Supporting others is important, but so is taking care of your own mental health. Make sure to prioritise self-care, set boundaries, and seek help when you need it. It\u2019s hard to support others effectively if you\u2019re struggling yourself.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2bf01c8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2bf01c8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ac5d8e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4ac5d8e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">RUOK? Day reminds us that we all have a role to play in supporting the mental health of those around us. Let\u2019s continue to take these important conversations beyond RUOK? 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